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Attendance Matters: When are Absences Considered School Avoidance?

Attendance Matters: When are Absences Considered School Avoidance?

“School avoidance” is when a child refuses to attend school or has difficulty remaining in school the entire day. There are many reasons why students avoid attending school, and uncovering the reason why your student is avoiding and/or refusing is key to fixing it. 

School avoidance may look like: 

  • Full day absences from school 
  • Going to school but leaving early 
  • Going to school, but only after crying, hiding, having an outburst, or refusing to move 
  • Faking illness to miss a day of school or having physical symptoms related to anxiety (e.g., headache, stomachache, nausea, etc.)  
  • Showing unusual distress about going to school and begging you not to make them go
I Think My Child May Have School Avoidance, What Can I Do to Help? 

Contact your child’s school team 
Reach out to your student’s school team to discuss your concerns and hear about supports such as school-based counseling, parent support group offerings, and 504 accommodation plans.  

Make an appointment with your child’s pediatrician 
Consider making an appointment with your child’s pediatrician or family doctor to rule out any medical complications that could be interfering with your child’s ability to attend school regularly. Common barriers to attendance include problems with sleep and untreated anxiety or depression.  

Check out the resources from Seattle Children’s 
Seattle Children’s website has some great resources to get you started, including their school refusal flyer. 


We’re Here to Help 

Supporting a child in working through their school avoidance can be overwhelming, painful, and feel hopeless at times. Please know you do not have to solve this heavy task alone. Your child’s school team is available and eager to partner with you. We welcome and encourage you to reach out to us with your concerns. 
 

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